Never Alone – Day 3

Her husband left her and their baby just after Christmas, 2009. Courageously she walks this wilderness with integrity. With grace.

Parenting alone. Sleeping alone. Waking alone. Waiting alone. And yet I see that, clearly, she is never really alone. She wears Him well…choosing to fully embrace her high call to
faith without sight. Hope against all hope.

I watch her and she moves me brave. Moves my spirit. And, every time she raises her hands in
worship, her valley of trouble becomes a door of Hope. (Tennessee – Day 3/40)

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More – Day 2

It always takes a few days and a few hundred miles for the reality of another mission to fully sink in…to really realize and accept the fact that once we leave our front door, we won’t see it again for 40 days. 40 days of journeying. 40 days of ministering. 40 days of taking back the territory of marriage. All that is true…and more. However, I must also remember that God has a work He wants to do in my heart as well. It wasn’t until we were well down the road that I remembered that while my hopes are high with regard to all that will transpire in the lives of those we’ll meet and minister to along the way, I must also realize that God doesn’t want me to return home as the same woman I was before we left. He wants MORE of my heart…MORE of my mind…MORE of my soul. And, He wants me to receive MORE of Him…MORE of His love…MORE of His presence.

Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one’s house for love, itwould be utterly scorned. Song of Solomon 8:7

For the LORD your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God. Deuteronomy 4:24

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Ready to Launch

For the next 40 days, we’ll be blogging with regard to our ninth mission trip across the U.S. This journey will take place from Sept. 2nd – Oct. 11th. We’ll post entries, photos, and videos from the road. Our mission is to reconcile marriages in need and, especially, to support spouses who are waiting on the Lord for restoration. It is the desire of our hearts to offer hope and encouragement as we testify to God’s redemptive plan and His ability to fully resurrect a marriage from the grave. HE ALONE IS ABLE! Check out our Day 1 video as we hit the road. You can also click here to download our itinerary for this journey. Plan Faith! Nothing less will do!

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Journey With Us?

During our upcoming 40-Day Marriage Mission Trip (September 2nd-October 11th) we invite you to journey with us by downloading our 40-Day Devotional.

“Show me Your ways, O Lord; teach me Your paths. Guide me in Your truth and faithfulness and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; for You [You only and altogether] do I wait [expectantly] all the day long.” Psalm 25:4-5 Amplified

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Plan Faith (filmed at the Jordan River)

We live in a world of plan B’s and back-up plans…and back-up plans for our back-up plans. This is not the way of Plan Faith.

The back-up plan for walking in faith is always…

more faith.

“NOW FAITH is the assurance (the confirmation, the title deed) of the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses].” Hebrews 11:1 (AMP)

(Click on the link to view the Plan Faith video, filmed on location at the Jordan River.)

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The Myrrh of God’s Mission

There are two kinds of pain. The pain of being outside God’s will, and the pain of being inside God’s will. Having experienced both, I’d take the latter any day.

Jesus was extremely clear when He warned that living out God’s mission would include trouble and pain (John 16:33). All God’s saints suffered in some manner. So, what does myrrh have to do with our suffering?

In ancient times, the oil of myrrh (which appears in many places throughout the holy Scriptures) was exuded from the leaves and stems of a small, thorny shrub. However, in order to increase the flow of myrrh, which was an extremely expensive commodity, the bush was artificially beaten or slashed. As the tree was torn open, myrrh flowed forth in great quantity. A priceless and rare treasure. Lest we forget, it was myrrh that was mixed to create the holy oil used to anoint priests and kings (Exodus 30:23, 1 Kings 1:39).

The Apostle Paul, who was well-acquainted with peril, spoke very vividly about the trials of his mission. Although Paul’s suffering seems rather extensive if you ask me, he never backed off from what God had called him to do. NEVER. If anything, Paul used his troubles to propel God’s purpose.

The temptation to shrink back from suffering is immense. But, there is no evidence in God’s Word that tribulation’s purpose is to make us give up.

Suffering mustn’t be considered a hazard, but a hallmark; a signifying, distinctive stamp of quality, purity, and sacred anointing. 

Every single trial we encounter, as we live out God’s mission, comes with His redemptive purpose and provision when we fully believe in the promises of His Word and the faithful God who made them.

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HIS STORY

The last time we ever set eyes on one another was the day our divorce papers were notarized. Once we parted ways in the parking lot of the notary public, we NEVER saw or heard from one another again. NEVER.

Never means NEVER. No contact means NO CONTACT. No phone calls…no random sightings…no letters. Cell phones and the Internet hadn’t even been invented yet.

NOT ONE SINGLE SOLITARY FLICKER OF HOPE IN SIGHT.

NOT ONE.

3,231 days and 3,027 miles passed. 

And then, on one sacred day…a day ordained from before the beginning of time…a letter of apology arrived in the mailbox of Clint’s house.

And the rest…as they say…is history.

HIS STORY. HIS GLORY.

“Abraham was first named “father” and then became a father because he dared to trust God to do what only God could do: raise the dead to life, with a word make something out of nothing. When everything was hopeless, Abraham believed anyway, deciding to live not on the basis of what he saw he couldn’t do but on what God said he would do. Romans 4:17-18 The Message, emphasis added.

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In Clear View

Twenty years ago today on a balmy July evening, I packed a few things in a suitcase and rolled it out the door of 4962 Heyer Ave.; slamming my heart shut to God and placing the final nail in the coffin of our slain marriage.

Several days before I left, I wrote these words in my journal: “Why? Why did all of this have to happen?” No doubt Clint was wondering the same thing, as he watched his stone-hearted wife turn her back on him…and walk out our front door.

Eleven years of wondering.

“Now we see a dim reflection, as if we were looking into a mirror, but then we shall see clearly. Now I know only a part, but then I will know fully, as God has known me.” 1 Corinthians 13:12

During our mission to Corinth earlier this year, we understood Paul’s words in a deeper way. The photo to the left is the kind of mirror that would have been used in Biblical times. Not much chance of clarity from a surface like that, is there?

Why? Why did “all of this” have to happen?  

Because God has the panoramic picture in pristine view. 

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Can THESE Bones Live?

1 The hand of the LORD was on me, and he brought me out by the Spirit of the LORD and set me in the middle of a valley; it was full of bones. 2 He led me back and forth among them, and I saw a great many bones on the floor of the valley, bones that were very dry.

That’s the very best description of our very dead marriage that I’ve ever read. One of the last times Clint attempted to reconcile with me, I took off my wedding ring and side-armed it across the room at him.

Eleven years of nothing but dry bones. Very dry bones.

A 3,000-mile long valley floor full of very dry bones.

3He asked me, “Son of man, can these bones live?” 


Uh, these bones? You mean…the ones over here? Nope. No way. The chances of the bones from our dead marriage being pieced back together? Zero.

Nada. Zip. Not gonna happen.

The chances of escaping God’s restorative reach?

Same same.

I said, “Sovereign LORD, you alone know.” 4 Then he said to me, “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the LORD! 5 This is what the Sovereign LORD says to these bones: I will make breathenter you, and you will come to life. 6I will attach tendons to you and make flesh come upon you and cover you with skin; I will put breath in you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the LORD.’”

Who would have ever thought?

Not our friends. Not our families. Not us.

7 So I prophesied as I was commanded. And as I was prophesying, there was a noise, a rattling sound, and the bones came together, bone to bone. 8I looked, and tendons and flesh appeared on them and skin covered them,

Forgiveness set our bones in rattling motion.

Bone to bone.

But there was no breath in them. 9 Then he said to me, “Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to it, ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Come, breath, from the four winds and breathe into these slain, that they may live.’”

Then the four winds of God’s holy breath began to blow upon us slain. And He blew…and blew…and blew some more. Life imparting.

10So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet—a vast army.

Those same very dry bones risen from the grave–now with sinews and skin and breath and life–have been standing for almost nine years.

And what about your very dry bones?

11 Then he said to me: “Son of man, these bones are the people of Israel. They say, ‘Our bones are dried up and our hope is gone; we are cut off.’ 12 Therefore prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: My people, I am going to open your graves and bring you up from them.”

Why would they be any different from ours?


I will bring you back to the land of Israel. 13 Then you, my people, will know that I am the LORD, when I open your graves and bring you up from them. 14 I will put my Spirit in you and you will live, and I will settle you in your own land. Then you will know that I the LORD have spoken, and I have done it, declares the LORD.’” (Ezekiel 37, emphasis added)

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God of the MORE Impossible

The wife of a man from the company of the prophets cried out to Elisha, “Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that he revered the LORD.”

She’s a widow. Strike one.

It gets worse.

She’s a poor widow with children. Strike two.

There’s more.

But now his creditor is coming to take my two boys as his slaves.”

Strike three. She’s out.

Enter prophet of God.

Elisha replied to her, “How can I help you? Tell me, what do you have in your house?” “Your servant has nothing there at all,” she said, “except a small jar of olive oil.” Elisha said, “Go around and ask all your neighbors for empty jars. Don’t ask for just a few.”

Let me get this straight. Her situation isn’t bleak enough? But now…to heap sorrow upon sorrow…this poor widow

this poor widow with children…

this poor widow with children about to become slaves is supposed to…

INCREASE her impossibility?

Make it more impossible?

Exactly. 

Then go inside and shut the door behind you and your sons. Pour oil into all the jars, and as each is filled, put it to one side.” She left him and shut the door behind her and her sons. They brought the jars to her and she kept pouring. When all the jars were full, she said to her son, “Bring me another one.” But he replied, “There is not a jar left.” Then the oil stopped flowing.

more impossible circumstance has no other option than to call upon the God of the more impossible.

The increase of our ache…

The enlargement of our emptiness…

The exaggeration of our need…


creates all the more room for God to fill it.

She went and told the man of God, and he said, “Go, sell the oil and pay your debts. You and your sons can live on what is left.”  (2 Kings 4:1-7 NIV, emphasis added)

Our more impossible need makes room for

our God of the more impossible.


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