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Arise! – Day 18

Drove by a graveyard today. Couldn’t help but think about all the marriages that have been buried by unforgiveness, prodigal wanderings, greener grass, satan’s ploys. The cemetery would have saddened me if not for the fact that, years ago, our marriage was pronounced dead too. Buried … Continue reading

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Because – Day 16

When we’ve driven for days into what feels like the middle of nowhere… When it’s only day 16 and we’re already weary and slowing… When we’ve lugged books and handouts and handouts and books and suitcases and laptops and Bibles and … Continue reading

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Freefall of Faith – Day 14

Until we looked more carefully at our atlas yesterday, we had no idea our route through Canada would take us so close to Niagara Falls. As a child, I remember hearing stories about people who tried to make it over the falls in a barrel. Their … Continue reading

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A Waiting Soul – Day 12

Over the last few days, God has given us the extreme privilege of praying over several people who are learning how to wait on Him during their time of separation. We consider their journeys as treading on very holy ground for we know they’re … Continue reading

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His Praying Bride – Day 10

When the Bride of Christ prays…                       True intimacy descends from Heaven. (Bridge to Life Couples’ Getaway, The Shack, White Cloud, MI)

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Fidgeting – Day 9

Today we began unpacking the tools God gave us to heal our marriage…and the fidgeting started. Not in every chair, but several. The fidgeting testifies to the discomfort of being vulnerable with one another….revealing our inner hearts. We know how the fidgets feel. … Continue reading

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Red Rings – Day 8

I catch them out of the corner of my eye as we share our testimony of reconciliation: red rings. Red rings encompassing their eyes. Eyes of hurt. Eyes of disappointment. Eyes of fear. The red rings encircling years of pain and … Continue reading

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Right to the Source – Day 7

Bumblebees are totally dependent on flowers for pollen and nectar…so much so that they know exactly where to draw out the nourishment they need, from even the most “complicated” of flowers. Their survival depends on their instinct. I think long and hard on this truth, … Continue reading

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Lights, Camera, Action! – Days 6 and 7

When something’s good, you want everyone to know about it. Through the work of Bridge to Life Ministries, Don and Becky Smith have been helping hurting couples for almost 30 years. This week in Holland, MI, we’ve had the privilege of helping them … Continue reading

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Scarlet to Snow – Day 4

Clint is often asked about how he was ever able to forgive my unfaithfulness and betrayal during our first marriage. And, he always responds the same humble way: “How could I not?”

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